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Pegah Shadalo

<i>"Hello" in your host country's language:</i> Bonjour! Hallo! Ciao! Bun di! <i>Home Institution (your U.S. University/College):</i> University of Utah <i>Expected graduation year:</i> 2022 <i>Destination city & country:</i> Geneva, Switzerland <i>Program provider:</i> ISA: Euroscholars <i>Major/minor:</i> Psychology <i>Demographics:</i> Middle Eastern/North African, First-Generation College Student, LGBTQ+ <i>Future career aspirations:</i> I would like to become a professional researcher in the field of Neuroscience. <i>Top 3 goals for your time abroad:</i> 1. Become intermediate in French and German 2. Get in touch with Swiss locals and to make friends 3. Explore Switzerland and itโ€™s various cultures

Lately, I have been feeling a bit homesick. Persian holidays have been happening back to back in honor of Persian New Year and I have never celebrated this time of the year without my family. Needless to say, it has been a struggle, but I have also made my own family here in Switzerland too.

Specifically, my host family has been very accepting and open to exploring my Iranian culture. Before my study abroad, I never understood how much gatherings and food can connect people and truly create an atmosphere of warmth. I was able to further grasp this this month as I have celebrated Persian holidays with my host family, when I initially assumed I would celebrate them alone. I cooked numerous Persian dishes and made a few mistakes, but they did not care. What mattered to them the most was the fact that I tried to make them happy and share my culture with them.

I even made an elaborate baklava with the help of my host mom, and it was such a heartwarming experience.

I feel much better now, and I am glad to have created a home here. To me, it has become clear that home is truly where the heart belongs.